The limits you set depend on your child's age and lifestyle. Talk with your child's doctor to learn more. Here is advice from pediatric expert groups:
- Children younger than 18 months. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) advises that young children stay off screens or only see screens when an adult is standing by to teach and talk (for example, video-chatting with family).
- Children ages 18 to 24 months. If you want to introduce screens to children in this age group, the AAP advises educational programs or apps. Younger children learn best alongside an adult, so use screens together. Don't give children this age screen time alone. Set time limits like 1 hour of screen time daily. Make sure to emphasize nonscreen activities like reading, talking, and playing together.
- Preschool children ages 2 to 5 years. The AAP advises limiting non-educational screen time to about 1 hour per day. Find other activities that are healthy for their bodies and minds. View or play media with your child.
- School-aged children ages 5 and older. Screen time limits will help your child get enough sleep (8 to12 hours, depending on their age) and physical activity (1 hour per day). Set media-free times together, like during meals or before bed. Create media-free places like the dinner table or the bedroom. This provides structure. In addition, you can use extra screen time to reward positive behavior. Examples are getting ready for school on time, doing chores, or completing homework.
It's normal for kids to push back against new rules. They might get upset or ask over and over for more screen time. Usually, they will get used to a rule within a couple of weeks. During that time, it's important to keep the rule consistent. Try to stop debate about the rule. Once it's set, it's not up for discussion.
Once the rule is pretty firmly in place, you might have to make exceptions sometimes. That's okay! Sometimes giving kids extra screen time once in a while helps you take care of yourself or get other things done. Being flexible is the best way to keep everyone's stress levels down. Just let your kids know it's a special case and not to expect extra screen time every day.
The limits may change over time as life changes and your children age. It's up to you to decide.